It's Baaaaaack!
That's right, folks. Members of the Pennsylvania legislature have again proposed a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage. Almost two full years ago (June 7, 2006) we discussed the last attempt to write discrimination into the Pennsylvania Constitution (which ultimately passed the Senate, but failed to gain traction in the House). This time around, opponents of the measure have a strange ally, Sen. Vincent Fumo, D-Philadelphia.
Not that a democratic senator coming out against this amendment is odd, but Vinny was last connected to the gay community when he was apologizing for calling some republican senators "faggots." First, let's just set Fumo's current legal problems aside. He's done bad things. I don't particularly like him. But to his credit, he has made some pretty strong arguments against such a ban, connecting it to slavery, among other discriminatory actions previously sanctioned by the government. In a press release, Fumo stated, "If a majority would vote to approve slavery -- as was done once in this country -- that wouldn't make it right. ...I wanted people at the hearing to face the fact that denying human rights to any group -- including homosexuals, at any point in our history... -- is wrong."
I agree wholeheartedly with that last statement and several others. Particularly this look toward tomorrow: "Hopefully, some day in the future, people will look back on this the way they look back on Mississippi and Alabama in the days of slavery, and be ashamed."
I just do not understand the fear of the anti-gay rights movement. In an effort to do so, I did a little research. The following are some of the most common arguments I've seen.
"Marriage has helped to provide stability in our society for thousands of years. It is worth the effort to define it within our constitution," said Sen. Mike Brubaker, R-Lancaster, the proposal's sponsor. What? Mr. Brubaker, how stable is our world exactly? Sudan, Iraq, Darfur, AIDS, climate change, gas prices, teen pregnancy, 1 in 4 women have/had STDs, and somehow Big Brother and Survivor are STILL on TV while the best show in the history of television, Friday Night Lights, is struggling to get ratings. Okay, I'm getting off track. Back to the point.
Matt Daniels, a "mover and shaker" behind the national anti-gay union movement stated that, "Americans believe that gays and lesbians have a right to live as they choose," (I'm sure the gay community is grateful, Matt), "but they don't have a right to redefine marriage for our entire society." Ahh. So when two people of the same sex get married, they are inherently redefining it? Nope. Still don't get it.
The Pennsylvania For Marriage website claims, "To prevent the destruction of marriage in Pennsylvania, several groups have joined together to lobby for an amendment to the state constitution which would limit marriage to one man and one woman." Yes, two consenting adults choosing to live together for the rest of their lives would TOTALLY destroy the sacred institution of marriage so beloved in the United States that about 40% who enter marriages get divorced, and more than half of them loved marriage so much that they got married again within five years. That screams sacred to me.
In conclusion, my brain doesn't seem to be able to wrap itself around the arguments against gay marriage, let alone the need to write it into the Pennsylvania or the U.S. Constitution. There is already a law banning same sex marriage in this state, which is horribly bad enough. Help get the word out that Pennsylvanians need to be more tolerant and less fearful of the gay community. Write letters to the editor or your representative. Talk to your friends and neighbors. People that like other people of the same sex are only different from heterosexuals in that respect alone.